I wish I could remember who told me about making friends. Who ever it was, they told me it doesn't matter what friends you had in high school, because it's the friends in college you'll end up living with and working with and ultimately growing up with as an adult.
And then there's some people from high school that worry me because they haven't grown up. They're still the petty little pathless people with no drive to work, no pride in what they do, and no plans for the future. It was different in high school, because we all had the goal of passing senior year and getting into college. Well now that we're all past that, it's now the time to chose a career path and work towards it.
It worries me that some people I know don't have a plan. And I don't mean that in an "I'm Better Than You" way, I mean it in general concern. But you know what? We're all adults now, we need to grow up and make choices. I'm doing things for me, and you should be doing things for you. We're on our own now, and things change. Life sucks sometimes, and then sometimes it gets to an amazing point. No one said anyone's life was gonna be easy, and it worries me that I know people that expect life to be perfect and breezy. I'm a firm believer in working hard and making smart choices and planning ahead. Sure it doesn't work for everyone, but that just means you should push even harder.
I don't even know where I'm going with this. I'm just generally pissed at the behavior of some people.
xx We Are Home, We Are Where We Should Be Forever Marz
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